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Apologies for the lack of posts. Need to clear somethings up

before November really begins in earnest … for me, at least.

At least my jetlag is finally (I think) dead and gone.

Jetlag is nature’s way of telling you “Cut the crap,

don’t fuss. Let your body and mind adjust to changes.”

It doesn’t feel like November in this country, truly.

Even though I have caught up with beloved family and

some dear friends ….

The pikupuff and kudapuff & I at Rootz. Seems a lifetime ago that Lot 10 was as happening.

With piku & kuda at Rootz. Seems a lifetime ago that Lot10 was as happening

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From left - Ro, Sharm, Arjen & Jasbir. I <3 this family. xo

I’m still thinking about two trips that have taught and inspired me

greatly this year. That’s the best thing about travel – when you

keep learning learning learning. I’ve learned so much from

America that I’ve been bursting with ideas since I got back.

Out of all the places we went, I must admit, I got most inspired

and learned most from New Orleans. (Yes, even though I

am dying to live in New York for a year or two)

I have to tell u ALL about this story ... but u must wait :) This is in New Orleans, with a woman who invited me into her home after I gawked & stared at her home for quite a bit LOL. She knows Brad Pitt ;)

Have to tell u ALL bout this story..but u must wait :) This is in NO, with a woman who invited me into her home after I shamelessly gawked at her home for ages. She knows Brad Pitt ;)

Ana & I ... at the Meatpacking District, NYC

Ana & I ... at the Meatpacking District, NYC

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My dear roadtrip buddies & I in Washington DC, at the end of our adventure. Sigh..

In front of Abe Lincoln's Memorial

Someone (unknowingly) became my model in front of Abe Lincoln's Memorial

And before that, a quieter, more reflective time …. I still remember this …

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At Long Lamai, Sarawak. I bathed in this river with my young friend Victoria (yes, Victoria :) for company

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That's her on the left & her cousin Kristiana, in front of their house

For those of who have not seen it, I wrote some articles on my

Penan and Long Banga trip which came out in The Nut Graph in October,

before I left for the US. You can read about them herehere and here .

But there are definitely more pictures I wish to share, here, soon enough.

Sometimes though, it aches to see these pictures. I remember how I felt

when they were taken.

Sometimes I feel more like the real me when I am away.

Some random points before I end:

-  Sometimes in this country of ours, I wonder if certain dastardly acts are

pure and intended evil &/or corruption, or if a big part of it is people just

well … f*cking up. Seriously.

A series of Ooops, Aiyaks and a startling acceptance of Kebodohan

Melampau or Ape-ape sajelah. Perhaps it is ‘Fight Ineptitude’ we should be

aiming for.

-  Is it normal to suddenly get turned off by friends when their heads

get too big? But you were so much more attractive & lovelier when

you were more humble, sweethearts.

-   I’ve been thinking (or having to face thoughts) about bullying,

intimidation, revenge and forgiveness for quite a bit recently.

It’s made me seriously question what I believe in, and whether I have

the strength to commit to principles I hold dear.  I never, ever thought

I’d allow myself to be bullied. Would/have you?

-   I really miss having dogs. Think it’s that unconditional love thang.

xo

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I’ll be leaving beautiful Borneo in a bit. (Again)

It’s rather surreal to have your life morph from a state of relaxed,

rustic green to a fast-paced stress mess, and then to and fro

and back again.

I’d like for it to be green always though, at least in my mind!

And since we’re on the topic of green …

Know any environmental/green-loving folks out there?

Or is that you, and can you write? (Not looking for pulitzer-winning

writers lah, jangan risau)

If you do, or if you are, drop me a line at im@laych.com

You know I’m currently only into the innneresting, fun stuff, so wouldn’t

you like to get on board?

Tee hee hee.

xo

Today, we saw Amy and Dion Tang marry against the backdrop

of a beautiful ocean view in Sabah.

He cried when he saw her walking in,

and had to steady himself as he read his vows.

She was crying too,

and as for us girls… Oh we were all in tears already the moment

we realised Dion was crying with joy.

We were shameless crybabies.

Happy, happy tears, all of us!

It is quite something else to witness your friends in such love

and happiness, who were best friends for so long,

now officially husband and wife.

 

I’m in such a good, chilled out mood … and am (touch wood)

in less agony than I was yesterday … so here are some

shots, taken just a while ago.

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Ames looked so beautiful *sigh* :)

Unfortunately I cannot download pix yet so

these pictures will have to do.

All these girls are now either married, in the midst

of marrying, or going to marry their loved ones

very soon! I   A D O R E  these girls … it was so good

to reunite :)

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My heart was just bursting with joy, really,

to be with these girls and boys again. I’m feeling so much

better just because I’m so happy seeing all of us

together. 

I’ve missed you all so.

Why can’t we all live closer together?

 

 

Thank you to the Dearees, what a beautiful wedding,

and looking forward to the madness tonight.

Congratulations Mr & Mrs Tang! 

xoxoxo

Beware, grossness alert.

 

Below are just the few bite marks on my legs and arms

right now. White cream is for the allergy and itchiness

and has steroids in them. [Please refer to past tweets/replies

if blur about this :]

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The start of October was supposed to be the

fresh, big bang start that I had envisioned.

Truth be told I am nowhere near fresh and the only

thing exploding outta me are these horrific bronchial coughs.

And if that isn’t enough, I chipped my tooth on Thursday

and I’ve had very little sleep for the past few nights because

the coughing keeps me up.

 

Nonetheless I refuse to be miserable in spirit,

good things are a-coming and here in October!

Am at Ames and Dion’s wedding in Kota Kinabalu.

(Well it’s technically in a few hours)

Can’t wait to see her in her dress, I know it’s gonna be awesome!

 

I’ve missed this London lot. They are a complete riot and a half.

xo

I came back from Borneo on Saturday a little

depressed.

After a week of fresh air, the rainforests and some

truly beautiful people, somehow highways,

air conditioning and the Internet 

all feel a little bit alien right now. 

I know I’m going to get right back into it …

but maybe I don’t want to?

 

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With Penan children in Long Lamai, Sarawak. This picture was taken by

Langkau Fiction, whom I am now pleased and honored to call my friend.

 

More on this coming up.

xo